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Looking for a safe and confidential space to connect with other trans masculine guys? This 12-week virtual group is designed for trans men by a trans man. You will get to particpate in ways that feel good to you and talk about the things that are importat to you.   

TRANS JOY IS RESISTANCE

Aging while trans is a really specific experience. There are times when you are simultaneously experiencing the world as a man while internally experiencing things for the first time. Right now trans people are under attack and it can be a lot to sit with alone. This group is designed to facilitate connection, conversation, and help us build spaces where we can feel safe and fully be ourselves. 

Topics

Masculinity

Aging

Relationships

Sex

Spirituality

Race & Ethnicity

Community

Communication

Work

Gender

Euphoria

L.J. 

“Before group, I felt alone in dealing with the recent wave of anti-trans legislation. Group helped me remember the importance of and comfort in seeking community during these times. Each week I felt more grounded and connected after group. I am deeply grateful."

Bailey

"I’m taking so many good things with me. every person inspired me in different ways. But mainly I think I am taking more freedom in my trans identity and more bravery."

C.O.

"I found comfort in hearing the same experiences I've dealt with mirrored back to me along with a general respectful and open atmosphere that made me feel like I would never be judged for feeling how I do. Many of my thoughts and emotions were immediately validated and understood, as well as treated as relatable among my peers which made me feel seen and heard."

TRANS-CENTERED /  SEX-POSITIVE / ANTI-RACIST​​

This group is designed by a trans man for trans-masculine adults who want to connect with other trans men.

  • For folks newer to transition and folks with more years under their belts.

  • For trans-masc people of all sexual orientations and sexual interests. 

  • For people over age 30. 

  • For both binary and non-binary trans-masculine people. 

  • For guys in relationships and guys who are single.

  • For guys post-surgery, pre-surgery, and those not interested in surgery.

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This group is not a therapy group or a trauma processing group. If either of those are things you're looking for please let me know and I'll connect you to other providers. 

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Still not sure if this group is for you? Send me an email and let's talk about it!​

FAQs

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1. When is it?

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Tuesdays from 5-6 pm EST starting 4/8/25.

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Dates: 4/8, 4/15, 4/22, 4/29, 5/6, 5/13, 5/20, 5/27,  [off 6/3], 6/10, 6/17, [off 6/24], 7/1, 7/8

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2. How much does it cost? 

 

The program includes 12 one-hour groups with a max of 12 participants,  one 15-minute one-on-one meeting, and between-session assignments. The fee is designed as a sliding scale; consider what fee makes the most sense to your budget. At least wo slots are no fee or pay-what-you-can and are reserved for BIPOC trans masc participants. 

                 

          Fee 1: Pay what you can/no-fee (for BIPOC participants)

          Fee 2: 45/week (Reduced Fee)

          Fee 3: 55/week (Reduced Fee)

          Fee 4: 65/week (Full Fee)

          Fee 5: 75/week (Full Fee + 10 to support folks with lower income)

          Fee 6: 85/week (Full Fee + 20 to support folks with lower income)

 

Payments can be made weekly or in full at the beginning of the group. 

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3. What if I can't make a group? 

 

This is a closed group, the same people will be there every week. This allows us to build trusting relationships with each other. It also means that participants are asked to pay for the group even if there is a day they are unable to attend.  I  do not record groups to protect the privacy of participants. 

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4. What is the refund policy? 

 

Your registration fee will be refunded in full if you choose not to participate before the first group. If you choose not to continue anytime before the fourth group, there is a 50 dollar cancellation fee. There are no refunds if you choose to end after that time and particpants are responsible for the remainder of the fee. 

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5. Is this group therapy?

 

No, this program is not group therapy. It is part class and part coaching group. There will be opportunities to interact with each other and as a whole group. 

Choose The Fee That's Right For You

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Best Value

Fee1: 45/week (Reduced Fee)

$45

45

Every week

A personalized short term plan

Valid for 12 weeks

1 Goal setting consultation

12 Virtual group meetings

Online resources and group

Weekly billing ***CHANGE START DATE TO TO 1st MEETING***

Best Value

Fee 2: 55/week (Reduced Fee)

$55

55

Every week

Unlimited access to services

Valid for 12 weeks

1 Individual goal setting meeting

12 Virtual group meetings

Online resources and group

Weekly billing ***CHANGE START DATE TO 1st MEETING***

Best Value

Fee 3: 65/week (Full Fee)

$65

65

Every week

Valid for 12 weeks

1 Individual goal setting meeting

12 Virtual group meetings

Online resources and group

Weekly billing ***CHANGE START DATE TO 1st MEETING***

Best Value

Fee 4: 75/week (Full Fee + 10)

$75

75

Every week

Valid for 12 weeks

1 Individual goal setting meeting

12 Virtual group meetings

Online resources and group

Weekly billing***CHANGE START DATE TO TO 1st MEETING***

Best Value

Fee 5: 85/week (Full Fee + 20)

$85

85

Every week

Valid for 12 weeks

1 Individual goal setting meeting

12 Virtual group meetings

Online resources and group

Weekly billing ***CHANGE START DATE TO 1st MEETING***

​The fee for this group is a sliding scale based on income and access to wealth. Participants that are able to pay more make it possible for participants with less access to be in the group. Two slots are no-fee and reserved for BIPOC participants. Those slots are first come, first serve. If you are interested in one of those slots please sent an email to paywhatyoucan.wildpansy@protonmail.com

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  • If you live with very little wiggle room financially, choose the lower end of the scale.

  • If you are doing well enough to regularly eat out, buy new clothes, and have no trouble paying your bills or buying groceries, choose the middle to upper end of the scale.

  • If you enjoy the benefits listed above plus vacations/travel, have investments, assets and/or significant savings, supplemental generational wealth, or if paid work is an option, not a necessity, choose the top of the scale.

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